MYTHS & FACTS

Myth: It can’t happen to me

Fact: Anyone can be sexually assaulted. Studies show that sexual assault happens to people of all ages, ethnic/racial backgrounds, sexual orientations, and economic/social backgrounds

Myth: Someone can only be sexually assaulted if a weapon was involved

Fact: In many cases, a weapon is not involved. There are physical injuries in only about 1/3 of all reported cases of rape

Myth: Most sexual assaults are committed by strangers

Fact: Over 75% of reported rapes are between people that know each other. This includes boyfriends/partners, spouses, classmates, neighbors, relatives, and coworkers

Myth: If the assailant, victim, or both are drunk, the assailant cannot be charged with sexual assault

Fact: Forcing sex on someone who is too drunk to give consent is rape. People who commit crimes while under the influence of alcohol or drugs are not considered free from guilt

Myth: Only women and gay men are sexually assaulted

Fact: The vast majority of male victims, as well as their rapists, are heterosexual. Male victims make up approximately 9% of all sexual assaults

Myth: A victim can’t say “No” midway

Fact: A victim can say “No” at ANY time

Myth: It is not rape if it is a boyfriend or partner that does it

Fact:   Any individual has the right to decide what she/he does with her/his body at all times- if the person does not want to have sex it is her/his decision, even if that individual willingly had sex with the person before. Most states now have laws against rape in marriage

Myth: Women report rapes to get even with men or to protect their reputations

Fact: According to the FBI and other studies, ONLY about 2% to 4% of reported rapes are false, which is the same percentage for the false reporting of other crimes

Myth: The best way to deal with a sexual assault is to act like it never happened

Fact: Speaking out about the sexual assault is a big part of the healing process. The trauma, fear, and guilt that may follow can cause more emotional damage later down the line, so speaking out to those you trust is VERY important!