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I.A.M

Informed  Aware  Motivated

To help...
  • end violence against women
  • stop sexual assault and rape
  • stop date rape and acquaintance rape

Get the facts

  • Myth
    Rapists are non-white. Rapists are lower class. Rapists are "Criminal types".

    Fact
    A rapist can be anyone: doctor, policeman, clergyman, social worker or corporate president.

  • Myth
    You can tell a rapist by the way he looks.

    Fact
    Rapists are not physically identifiable. They may appear friendly, normal, and non-threatening. Many are young, married and have children. Rapist types and traits however can be categorized.

  • Myth
    Rape only occurs outside and at night.

    Fact
    Rape can and does occur anytime and anyplace. Many rapes occur during the day and in the victims' homes.

  • Myth
    Sexual assault is an impulsive, spontaneous act.

    Fact
    Most rapes are carefully planned by the rapist. A rapist will rape again and again, usually in the same area of town and in the same way.

  • Myth
    Sexual assault usually occurs between strangers.

    Fact
    Over 70% of rape victims know their attackers. The rapist may be a relative, friend, co-worker, date or other acquaintance.

  • Myth
    Only women and gay men get raped.

    Fact
    The vast majority of male rape victims, are heterosexual. Male rape victims now represent 8% of the primary victims served by the Orange County Rape Crisis Center. Rapists are motivated by the desire to have power and control over another person, not by sexual attraction. Male rape is not homosexual rape.


'Dare to Share' stories

"I Remember the Day"
By: Terry Kemp

I remember the day the cops and the medics came
You’d been screaming and hollering for help
But suddenly it got quiet before they busted your door,
And under the dresser, the clothes, and your bed…
You were buried.

The power of a tornado in a room 6' by 9'?
How in the world did that possibly happen?
Was it you or some force that sent it all flying,
And when I found you, were you dead…
Or just dying?

Mommy, sweet Mommy! Who were you fighting?
"Get off me! Away from me! Help me!" I heard from behind the door.

Earlier that day, you squirmed across the floor
Nylons ripped up, skirt around your waist
You slithered headfirst down the stairs like a snake
All the while laughing the low voice of the devil…

Who are these demons that come after you?
Did your family bring this on you?

  Did they lie, were they lonely and hungry like you?
Or mean and greedy like your ruthless brother,
Who cut off your ear and beat up your mother?
Were they careless and cold like your worthless father who
Slit your cat’s throat and pushed away your daughter?
Or bawdy and haughty like your so-called mother, who,
When you told her your brother got hit by a car,
Gave you a nickel from the man at the bar?

Oh, the story of your life, you could write a book,
But like you’ve always said, who would believe it?
Your raging childhood, a painful past,
How did you ever live through it?

Did you live through it, I wonder, are you here?
Is this nightmare I live yours or mine?
Tossed with a tempest, a storm rolls through,
Then in the quiet…I look for you.

"Herself"
By: Mitch Ryan

I
I shall never strike a woman
For I know
That God
Herself
Will strike me down

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